What is a 4th wedding anniversary? We'll also introduce recommended flowers for gifts!
What is a Flower Wedding Anniversary? We also recommend flowers for gifts!
Four years of marriage. Many people may feel that time has flown by, even as they hold on to fresh feelings.
Are you aware of this special anniversary that celebrates the 4th wedding anniversary?
It's called the "Flower Wedding Anniversary."
In this article, a floral expert will introduce the romantic meaning and origin of the Flower Wedding Anniversary, as well as flower gifts perfect for your loved one.
By reading this article, your Flower Wedding Anniversary is sure to become an even more wonderful occasion.
Click here for our special feature on wedding anniversary flowers ▶︎
What is a Flower Wedding Anniversary?
Wedding anniversaries have meaningful names assigned to each year. The 4th wedding anniversary is celebrated as the "Flower Wedding Anniversary."
The Meaning Behind the Flower Wedding Anniversary
The Flower Wedding Anniversary symbolizes "the deepening of the bond between a couple, like flowers blossoming and bearing fruit, leading to abundant blessings."
It marks a period when married life has passed its third year and entered a stable phase, with the home becoming as vibrant as blossoming flowers.
After experiencing various things together, walking side by side, the couple's bond has surely deepened.
The Flower Wedding Anniversary, both in name and meaning, is a very romantic anniversary, fitting for the fourth year.
Origin and History of the Flower Wedding Anniversary
The custom of assigning materials and symbols to wedding anniversaries is said to have been systematized in 19th-century England and America.
Originally, only major milestones like the Silver Anniversary (25 years) and Golden Anniversary (50 years) were celebrated.
After the Paper Anniversary (1st year), Cotton Anniversary (2nd year), and Leather Anniversary (3rd year), comes the Flower Anniversary (4th year). This symbolizes how the marital bond grows stronger and more valuable with each passing year.
While materials up to the 3rd year (Leather Anniversary) often emphasize "foundational strength" and "durability," from the 4th year onwards, the meaning tends to shift towards "beauty," "vibrancy," and "abundance."
Flower Wedding Anniversary Abroad?
The culture of celebrating wedding anniversaries is common not only in Japan but also in Western countries.
In English, it is called the Flower Wedding Anniversary, and like in Japan, "flowers" are used as a symbol.
The classic celebration is to give a bouquet of flowers. Roses and gerberas are particularly popular.
Additionally, "appliances" are sometimes given as gifts (with the meaning that life becomes more convenient and the home becomes more fulfilling).
Give a flower gift for a Flower Wedding Anniversary
As the name "Flower Wedding Anniversary" suggests, a flower gift is the most recommended present for this anniversary.
Here, we introduce flower gifts suitable for the recipient and occasion.
We recommend a luxurious "flower arrangement"!
The greatest appeal of flower arrangements is their ease of display, as they don't require a vase.
Since the flowers are already arranged in a basket, box, or ceramic container, they can be displayed immediately upon receipt, and watering is also easy.
They tend to be voluminous, so even with a small budget, you can give a luxurious flower arrangement suitable for a "Flower Wedding Anniversary."
For your Flower Wedding Anniversary, decorate your dining table with a flower arrangement and enjoy a special, out-of-the-ordinary dinner.
Luxurious and stylish flower arrangements recommended for a Flower Wedding Anniversary
Recommended Arrangement for Celebrations, LL Size, Pink Tones "ombre rose"
¥12,100-
"Bouquets" if you have a vase
Bouquets and floral arrangements are classic flower gifts.
The special feeling when presenting them creates an irreplaceable感动 (kandou - deep emotion).
If you give an original bouquet using plenty of your wife's or your favorite flowers and colors, your feelings will be conveyed even more.
This is recommended for those who enjoy arranging flowers themselves or already own a vase.
Even if you don't have a vase, &YOUKAEN can deliver a set with a vase. We have many vases that enhance the beauty of flowers, so please take a look.
Luxurious and stylish bouquets recommended for a Flower Wedding Anniversary
Recommended Bouquet for Celebrations, GR Size, Pink Tones "classe rose"
¥13,200-
"Bouquet that can be displayed as is" - easy to place
Recently, "bouquets that can be displayed as is" have become increasingly popular.
Since the bouquet is wrapped in a bag containing water-retaining eco-jelly instead of a vase, there's no need to change the water, making it easy to display flowers.
Simply take it out of the box upon arrival and place it somewhere. It's truly easy.
This is perfect for busy couples or those who don't usually display many flowers.
For a Flower Wedding Anniversary, placing a pink bouquet in the center of the dining table can transform an ordinary dinner into something special. It's sure to taste many times better than usual.
Stylish "ready-to-display bouquets" recommended for a Flower Wedding Anniversary
Ready to display! Seasonal Omakase Bouquet L
¥7,700-
If you like antiques, "dried flowers and wreaths"
If you prefer an antique atmosphere, dried flowers and wreaths are recommended.
Their subdued colors, different from fresh flowers, are charming. The great thing is that they require no watering or maintenance and can be enjoyed for a long time.
Displayed as interior decor, they will bring back memories of your Flower Wedding Anniversary every time you see them.
For a Flower Wedding Anniversary gift, a "wreath" is recommended. Wreaths are circular. Since ancient times, they have carried the meaning of "eternity, immortality, and cycle."
The idea of a circle meaning immortality is a concept seen across cultures worldwide, and it carries the same meaning as wedding rings.
Stylish "dried flower wreaths" recommended for a Flower Wedding Anniversary
Dried Flower Wreath "Hydrangea and Herb Wreath"
¥6,600-
"Preserved flowers" that can be displayed until next year
Preserved flowers are popular as a gift symbolizing "eternal love."
Because they are fresh flowers that have undergone a special preservation process, they don't require watering and can maintain their beautiful condition for a long time.
They are also free of pollen and fragrance, making them a safe gift for those with allergies, and perfect for surprise gifts.
We recommend "box flower arrangements" where preserved flowers are tightly packed into a box.
This is a popular flower gift, so your wife is sure to love it.
Stylish "preserved flower arrangements" recommended for a Flower Wedding Anniversary
Preserved Flower Arrangement "Sweet Rosé"
¥8,800-
What flowers are recommended for a Flower Wedding Anniversary?
Many flowers have their own meanings.
Choose flowers to give for a Flower Wedding Anniversary based on the message you want to convey.
"Roses" loved around the world
Roses, symbolizing "love" and "beauty," are the most popular flowers to give for wedding anniversaries.
Their flower meanings change depending on the color and number of stems, allowing you to convey a more personal message.
Let's take a look at some rose flower meanings.
・Red rose: "I love you," "love," "passion," "beauty"
・White rose: "purity," "mutual love," "deep respect"
・Pink rose: "gratitude," "elegance," "warm heart," "vow of love"
・Number of stems: 4 roses "my feelings will never change until I die," 6 roses "I'm infatuated with you," 12 roses "please go out with me," 108 roses "please marry me," etc.
Bouquet using red roses recommended for a Flower Wedding Anniversary
Bouquet of 6 red roses and seasonal greenery M size
¥6,590-
Actually the symbolic flower of the Flower Wedding Anniversary: "Geranium"
In fact, geranium is the special flower that symbolizes the Flower Wedding Anniversary.
It carries flower meanings such as "true love," "trust," "respect," and "happiness with you," making it perfect for expressing the joy of married life and the bond between a couple.
It is characterized by its vibrant colors and delicate appearance. It also has a slightly pleasant scent.
When presenting it, please tell them that geraniums are given for the 4th wedding anniversary, the Flower Wedding Anniversary. This is a bit of trivia, so not many people would know it.
If it's summer, you absolutely must give "sunflowers"!
Sunflowers, reminiscent of the summer sun, are flowers that brighten the heart just by looking at them.
The flower meanings of sunflowers, such as "I look only at you," "passion," and "admiration," are perfect for expressing the intense feelings of a couple.
Especially the flower meaning "I look only at you" comes from the sunflower's habit of tracking the sun, making it ideal for conveying the feeling of always looking at and cherishing the other person.
They are available from late June to late August. If your wedding anniversary falls during that period, please send sunflowers.
Bouquet using sunflowers recommended for a Flower Wedding Anniversary
Mahogany-colored sunflower Darjeeling bouquet L 19:00
¥13,200-
Popular for wedding anniversaries: "Carnations"
Carnations, while strongly associated with Mother's Day, are actually popular for wedding anniversaries too.
Depending on their color, they carry flower meanings such as "gratitude," "pure love," and "admiration," making them a perfect gift to deepen the bond between a couple.
They are characterized by how well they complement each other when combined with seasonal flowers and greens.
Flower arrangement using carnations recommended for a Flower Wedding Anniversary
Recommended Arrangement for Celebrations, LL Size, Orange Tones "ombre orange"
¥12,100-
Hydrangeas are also recommended for early summer.
Hydrangeas, which bloom beautifully during the rainy season, have wonderful flower meanings such as "family unity" and "enduring love."
Precisely because it's a time of continuous rain, a hydrangea bouquet will brighten the spirits of the couple.
These flowers surprisingly last a long time, so you can enjoy them for an extended period.
It's a secret that if you dissolve alum in water, they can last about three weeks. Please try it.
Bouquet using hydrangeas recommended for a Flower Wedding Anniversary
Deliver June! Bouquet to enjoy seasonal colors "Rain and Hydrangea -blue hydrangea-"
¥9,900-
Add a message to the flower gift for a Flower Wedding Anniversary
Adding a handwritten message to a flower gift makes it an even more heartfelt present.
Key points for writing a message
・Convey your honest feelings: It might feel awkward to express them again, but try to put your gratitude and love into words.
・Reflect on memories: Look back at memorable events from your four years of marriage and write about how you felt at the time.
・Talk about future prospects: Mentioning the future, such as "what kind of couple you want to become," can deepen your bond.
Sample messages
・To wife: "Happy Flower Wedding Anniversary. Thank you for always being by my side. Let's make many more flowers bloom together."
・To husband: "Thank you for always supporting our family. The past four years we've spent together have been truly happy. Please continue to be with me."
・To friends: "Happy Flower Wedding Anniversary! I'm glad I met you two. May you continue to be a wonderful couple full of smiles."
Summary
The 4th wedding anniversary, or Flower Wedding Anniversary, is the perfect day to reaffirm your marital bond and express your gratitude to each other.
For a Flower Wedding Anniversary, a luxurious and stylish flower arrangement or a chic bouquet is recommended as a gift!
At &YOUKAEN, we offer a variety of flowers to help you celebrate a wonderful Flower Wedding Anniversary.
We will lovingly prepare a heartwarming flower gift suitable for your brilliant life together, which still has a long way to go.
Click here for our special feature on wedding anniversary flowers ▶︎
Sep 12, 2025
