What are the classic flowers for Respect for the Aged Day? We also introduce recommended flower gifts.
What are the classic flowers for Respect for the Aged Day gifts? We also introduce recommended flower gifts.
Are you considering sending flowers on Respect for the Aged Day to express your gratitude but wondering, "What kind of flowers are traditional?" or "What kind of flowers would they appreciate?"
This article, from a florist's perspective, carefully explains everything from the meaning of giving flowers on Respect for the Aged Day to popular classic flowers, how to choose flower gifts that will be appreciated, and points to note when purchasing.
If you're planning to send flowers on Respect for the Aged Day, please refer to this guide.
What is the meaning of giving flowers on Respect for the Aged Day?
Why are flowers the perfect gift for Respect for the Aged Day? By understanding the meaning behind them and the messages flowers convey, you can express your gratitude even more deeply.
The relationship between Respect for the Aged Day and flowers
When talking about the relationship between Respect for the Aged Day and flowers, the Choyo no Sekku (Chrysanthemum Festival) on the 9th day of the 9th month of the lunar calendar is indispensable.
It is one of the five seasonal festivals transmitted from China, where chrysanthemums are used to wish for longevity and good health.
It was believed that drinking chrysanthemum sake or purifying the body with chrysanthemum dew would ward off evil spirits and bring longevity.
This tradition is thought to be connected to the custom of giving flowers on Respect for the Aged Day, especially flower arrangements and bouquets containing chrysanthemums.
Why are flowers ideal gifts for Respect for the Aged Day?
There are several reasons why flowers are chosen as gifts for Respect for the Aged Day.
・Symbol of gratitude and respect: Flowers beautifully express "thank you" and "respect" in a way words sometimes can't.
・Brilliance that brightens a space: Flowers displayed in the living room or entrance brighten and beautify the space, bringing comfort to those who see them.
・Healing effect: The beauty and gentle fragrance of flowers provide mental and physical healing, bringing a sense of relaxation.
・Gift for all ages and genders: They possess universal appeal, cherished by people of all age groups and genders.
The message conveyed by flowers
Flowers can convey various messages through their language.
For example, choosing flowers with meanings like "gratitude," "health," or "longevity" will convey the sender's sincere feelings more deeply.
The great appeal of flowers is that they are not only visually beautiful but also allow you to embed heartwarming messages.
When celebrating someone important or expressing gratitude, please consider giving flowers. Their magic is sure to foster good relationships moving forward.
Top 5 popular classic flowers for Respect for the Aged Day!
We've picked out 5 types of flowers that are especially popular for Respect for the Aged Day. Learn about the characteristics and appeal of each flower to help you choose your gift.
① "Chrysanthemums" are a classic for Respect for the Aged Day
Chrysanthemums have been cherished since ancient times as a symbol of longevity and immortality, and as an auspicious flower.
They are especially suitable for Japanese-style flower arrangements, bouquets, and posies, and are appreciated by those who prefer a calm atmosphere.
In recent years, Western varieties such as pompon and spray types have increased, and they are also used in gifts with a modern impression.
Many people love their unique fragrance! Another characteristic is that they tend to wilt easily. You can enjoy the flowers for a long time.
② "Roses" are popular after all
Roses are loved by all generations for their beauty and elegance.
For Respect for the Aged Day gifts, pink roses symbolizing "gratitude" and purple roses symbolizing "respect" are particularly popular.
The meaning of roses also changes depending on the number of stems, so it's wonderful to choose them according to the sentiment you wish to convey.
Just the presence of roses makes flower arrangements and bouquets shine stylishly, so they are highly valued by florists.
③ Autumn seasonal flower "Gentian (Rindo)"
Gentian (Rindo) is a representative autumn flower that comes into season in September, around Respect for the Aged Day.
Characterized by calm shades of purple and blue, its language of flowers includes meanings like "justice" and "sincerity," making it perfect for conveying feelings of respect.
Its dignified appearance seems to represent the grace of older people.
Due to its short stem, it is rarely included in bouquets and is primarily given as part of flower arrangements or as a potted plant.
④ If it's a potted plant, "Phalaenopsis Orchid"
Phalaenopsis orchids are highly popular as potted gifts due to their luxurious appearance and long-lasting nature.
Their flower language, "happiness flies in," is auspicious and perfect for conveying congratulatory feelings.
They are relatively easy to care for, and if kept in an appropriate environment, they can be enjoyed for several months, but care must be taken with their placement (avoid direct sunlight and ensure a stable room temperature).
In recent years, opportunities to give them as gifts have increased, making them a classic choice for Respect for the Aged Day.
While it's not impossible to include them in flower arrangements or bouquets, it would be extremely expensive, so potted plants are the better choice for gifts.
⑤ Gorgeous "Dahlia" with large blooms
Dahlias are large, impressive flowers that are suitable for festive occasions.
They come in a very rich variety of colors and shapes, allowing you to choose according to the recipient's personality.
Their flower language includes "gratitude" and "glory," which are perfect messages for Respect for the Aged Day gifts.
While they are available year-round, autumn is actually their peak season, so around Respect for the Aged Day, you'll find many dahlias with vibrant colors and full blooms.
Dahlias at this time of year also tend to last a bit longer than usual. Dahlia lovers should not miss autumn dahlias.
How to choose a flower gift
When choosing a flower gift for Respect for the Aged Day, there are several key points.
What flower colors are preferred for Respect for the Aged Day?
The color scheme of flowers greatly influences the impression of the gift and the meaning of the celebration.
・Red: Symbolizes passion and vitality, an auspicious color also used for 60th birthday celebrations.
・Purple: Symbolizes elegance and longevity, often chosen for 70th and 77th birthday celebrations. It is often combined with yellow or orange, not just purple.
・Yellow/Orange: Bright colors that give energy, perfect for 88th birthday celebrations. These are arguably the most frequently gifted colors for Respect for the Aged Day.
・Pink: A warm color that expresses gentleness and gratitude. Also a popular color to give to grandmothers.
・White: Expresses purity and innocence, and is easy to combine with other colors. Recommended for simple and stylish grandfathers and grandmothers.
Matching the preferences of your grandparents or the ambiance of their living room will make the gift even more appreciated.
Choosing flowers for Respect for the Aged Day based on their meaning
Each flower has its own meaning. For Respect for the Aged Day, it's recommended to choose flowers with positive and auspicious meanings.
・"Gratitude": Pink roses, carnations, etc.
・"Happiness": Phalaenopsis orchids, baby's breath, etc.
・"Health," "Longevity": Chrysanthemums, gentians, etc.
By entrusting your feelings to the language of flowers, your gratitude will be conveyed more deeply.
Of course, when giving flowers, be sure to express your thanks in words as well.
Ease of display is also important when giving to the elderly
When giving flowers to the elderly, ease of display is an important consideration.
・Generally, "flower arrangements" are appreciated because they don't require a vase and can be displayed as is, minimizing the effort of preparing a vase or changing water.
・Choosing lightweight and easy-to-carry sizes will reduce the burden on grandparents.
・When selecting flower materials, consider the recipient's situation for those that require careful handling or maintenance, such as rose thorns or lily pollen.
For flower gifts sold at &YOUKAEN, roses are carefully de-thorned, and if lilies are used, pollen is removed before delivery.
Recommended flower gifts for Respect for the Aged Day?
At &YOUKAEN, we offer a wide range of heartwarming flower gifts perfect for Respect for the Aged Day.
"Flower Arrangements" are easy to give and display
The greatest appeal of flower arrangements is that they are arranged in a container, so no vase is needed and they can be displayed as they are.
There's no need to change the water; just replenish it regularly. You can easily enjoy the flowers.
They are also characterized by the ability to combine various floral materials and colors, making it easy to express feelings of gratitude and celebration.
If you're unsure whether your grandparents have a vase, giving a flower arrangement is a good choice. They are easy to manage and last a long time.
Recommended Flower Arrangement for Respect for the Aged Day
Respect for the Aged Day Flower Arrangement M "Akane"
¥7,700-
"Bouquets" using seasonal flowers
Bouquets and posies are characterized by the ability to freely combine types, numbers, and colors of flowers. They have a special feeling that conveys the sender's emotions directly.
Also, because they look great in photos, they are often given as flower gifts at dinner parties for Respect for the Aged Day.
Since they are made with long stems, you can enjoy the natural sway of the flowers when placed in a vase.
While they make for stylish flower gifts, it's necessary to check if your grandparents have a vase.
At &YOUKAEN, you can also present a vase along with the flowers, so please feel free to inquire.
Recommended Bouquets for Respect for the Aged Day
Respect for the Aged Day Limited Bouquet "Kurenai" using autumn flowers
¥9,350-
"Dried Flowers and Swags" for stylish grandparents
Dried flowers, which are fresh flowers that have been dried, are highly appealing because they require no watering and can be enjoyed for a long time.
Their antique atmosphere is stylish, and they beautifully decorate a space as interior decor.
They are particularly recommended for those who value practicality and grandparents who prefer a chic atmosphere.
"Swags," which are hung on walls, are especially popular.
When displaying them, the key is to place them in a location that avoids direct sunlight and has low humidity. It's not recommended to display them in places like bathrooms or washrooms.
Recommended Dried Flowers and Swags for Respect for the Aged Day
Dried Flower Bouquet "Natural White"
¥8,250-
"Bouquets that can be displayed as is" are also popular, even without a vase
"Bouquets that can be displayed as is" are groundbreaking flower gifts that do not require a vase.
They arrive with water in a dedicated container instead of a vase, so the biggest advantage is that they can be displayed immediately upon receipt.
They are ideal for those who don't own a vase or want to enjoy flowers easily.
The "Bouquets that can be displayed as is" series is very popular at &YOUKAEN. Our staff are also working hard to develop stylish products. This bouquet is a repeat purchase for many people, regardless of age or gender. You can confidently give it as a gift for Respect for the Aged Day.
Recommended "Bouquets that can be displayed as is" for Respect for the Aged Day
Can be displayed as is! Respect for the Aged Day Bouquet "Daidai" using autumn flowers
¥6,600-
Points to note when purchasing flowers for Respect for the Aged Day
To ensure a smooth flower gift delivery for Respect for the Aged Day, there are a few points you might want to check.
Early ordering is important!
Respect for the Aged Day is a time of high demand for gifts, so last-minute orders can lead to desired flowers or designs being out of stock, or longer delivery times.
By reserving early at &YOUKAEN, you can secure your desired gift.
If you are considering sending a flower gift for Respect for the Aged Day, please make your reservation early! &YOUKAEN accepts reservations 24 hours a day!
Convey your gratitude with a message card
While flowers alone can convey your feelings, adding a handwritten message card will further express your gratitude and make it a heartwarming gift.
Instead of just standard phrases like "Thank you always" or "Stay healthy always," writing down specific anecdotes in your own words will make it an irreplaceable treasure for the recipient.
At &YOUKAEN, we can include a message card (for a fee), so please feel free to inquire.
Choose a flower gift according to your budget
For Respect for the Aged Day gifts, it's important not to overspend. Set a comfortable budget and choose the best gift within that range.
Prices vary depending on the type, such as bouquets, flower arrangements, and potted plants.
&YOUKAEN offers a wide range of products at various price points, so please choose a flower gift that fits your budget.
Considering the display space is also important
It's also important to consider the size of the recipient's home and where the flowers will be displayed.
Particularly large arrangements or potted plants require display space.
In some cases, compact arrangements, mini bouquets, or wall-hanging dried flowers (swags) might be better options.
When choosing a product, please consider the space available for display.
Check if they have a vase
If you're sending a bouquet, it's thoughtful to check in advance if the recipient has a vase.
If they don't have a vase, consider a set with a vase or the aforementioned "bouquet that can be displayed as is," which will delight the recipient without causing them any trouble.
This is an aspect that is often overlooked when giving flower gifts, so please keep it in mind.
Summary
Flowers are perfect as gifts for Respect for the Aged Day. They can convey feelings of gratitude and wishes for longevity.
There are various flower gifts, from classic flowers like chrysanthemums, roses, and gentians, to flower arrangements, dried flowers, and easy-to-display bouquets that can be placed as they are.
When choosing a flower gift for Respect for the Aged Day, it is most important to select one that matches the recipient's preferences and lifestyle.
&YOUKAEN offers a wide selection of high-quality flower gifts perfect for Respect for the Aged Day. We are here to help you shape your feelings, so please take a look.
Jul 23, 2025
